Really complex but I’m really stuck here. I like my partner we have been together 6 years. It’s a little up and down at times but all in all it’s great I love his two little kids ds1 is 8 , ds 2 is 10 etc.
When I met him he told me he had been with his ex 17 years they had spilt three years ago and had happily been co parenting for that three years . However just very recently she had got a new partner and he seemed extremely jealous of him. Of course at this point I called it off and said clearly this is unresolved. He convinced me it was fully resolved and we proceeded. Since she met her new partner the ex hasn’t said a word to my partner she stonewalls him and gives silent treatment. Last night he broke down about this and told me this treatment from her had made him depressed for the whole time we have been together he had just put a brave face on it. It upset me when he told me that he had never enjoyed any time that he and I had spent together with the children.
I just don’t know how to feel today and just don’t know what to do.