Hi, I'd really like to hear the perspective of others in similar situations. We have a blended family, I have two boys and my OH has one. While my co parenting relationship is a bit strained, he lives abroad and calls with the boys 3 times a week, and has visits 5 times a year, apart from arranging calls, there is little need for contact between us. My other halves situation is very different. They text daily, work together, she asks for life advise, he lends her money, they have a dinner together, with thr rest of us, once a week, and still celebrate all occasions together. Which means all occasions with my boys (apart from their own birthdays) are spent with his ex, her new child and her partner. To say I find this all very difficult is an understatement, I feel like there are no boundaries and we have no private life. It has caused significant strain on our relationship, and while our time toehyehr was always last on thr list, it's becoming less and less of a priority. He is frustrated with me, nd says I am immature and too insecure to deal with the situation, and has always maintained he does all for his son only. He has told me his son comes first , and always will. On top of that, He has never wanted me to know his income, says its his money and that thr house is his also. I feel increasingly unloved. I continue to make his dinners, his lunches for work and I do all the cooking for the kids , all the washing and cleaning of thr house, along with working full time, all without thanks. I feel a bit lost and alone. I just would love people's opinions, specifically if you have any personal insight to a smiliar situation. Thank you.