Advice please

[MrsMummy00]

So this is going to sound a bit wierd. I’ve been with hubby 12 years. He’s got history of talking to women etc. we’re trying to get past it. So nothing has happened recently as far as im aware. Lately though, he’s been with this boy at work he’s quite a bit younger than him, he’s single and is on the look out for a girl. There both on TikTok, as am I and I was scrolling through lives and his mate was on live and my husband was in the chat and this mate saw I joined and said ‘oh is this your wife joined’ and my husband said yes and then this mate said oh you better be good then. I left as I was sorting the kids out but my minds racing, I’ve asked him and he’s basically said it’s just boy banter. Do you think he’s being truthful or do you think he’s up to something?

Sorry OP but when you say your DH is friendly with a boy who is looking for a girl what on earth age is this friend? He must be really young. Why is your DH hanging about with someone so much younger?
If your DH is an adult why is he having " boy banter" on tiktok?
If you and he have DC perhaps it's time your DH grew up a bit.

I’m not sure how old you all are in this scenario - sounds very young!
I personally wouldn’t be too hung up on ‘you better behave’ as I think it’s just a common joke people say if their partners are around?
I don’t like it though, it would piss me off like they think I’m some sort of crank 😂

but if he used to speak to other women, I can see why you’d think otherwise. You could speak to him and let him know it made you a bit uncomfortable and you’re looking for a bit of reassurance?