I’ve been seeing a guy for around 3 months. We are both in our early/mid thirties. We’ve discussed being exclusive but are not an official couple yet.
At the end of December he told me he’d randomly booked a last minute flight to a hot country outside Europe. I was away with my family for Xmas but we had been in contact as normal. I was a bit surprised but thought, oh well, good for you for wanting a bit of sun, and I knew this was a destination that was on his bucket list. He’d booked a one-way ticket only but said he would probably stay for a couple of weeks (he WFH permanently so has taken his laptop to work there).
It’s now been around 4 weeks and he recently told me he’s actually now flown to a neighbouring country to spend a bit of time there as well. He’s been in contact every day, sending me pics etc, so clearly wants to keep up a connection. However he seems in no rush to come back, is kind of just taking each day as it comes and doesn’t have a real plan of what he’s doing.
I’m not sure really what to feel about this? Is it a red flag? On the one hand I think well why not, if you want to travel and have the luxury of working remotely…but on the other hand I’m not sure where it leaves me. He’s not said he misses me or anything and has no idea when he’ll be back. Do I date others in the meantime? Call it off?