So Iv been seeing the guy for the last 5 months. We both have a little trauma from past relationships, his involved having a breakdown. He'd been single 6 years, myself 7 years so we were both being cautious but the relationship flowed naturally. A few weeks into it he asked if we were official so I agreed and everything seemed good. He met my kids, I met his family, I'd stay at his once a week and he'd come over mine once a week. Since we've known each other, he's had a lot of drama with his youngest due to their mental health. Last week he got referred to the cancer clinic and had a blood test. The blood test came back as a mild abnormality with his liver with no immediate concern. Then on the weekend things really kicked off with his youngest and his ex. I tried to be supportive, things seemed normal between us. But yesterday out of the blue he messages me saying he can't be in the relationship anymore, needs to focus on his health and his youngest and get his stress levels down. Obviously I don't want things to end. But I genuinely don't know what to do. I asked to speak to him but he replied saying he doesn't think that's a good idea just yet as I'd persuade him to change his mind. To me that feels like he wants me to change his mind. Am I wrong? I need help and advise