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Don’t know where I’m at with my ex

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LuckyHiker · 24/01/2025 11:51

me and my ex who we both have 2 kids together with , we have been split up for 6months now but still living together as he currently hasn’t got anywhere else to go really so trying to sort something out. I broke up with him in the first place myself as we had been arguing loads and it going back and forth and I just couldn’t really take it anymore as I had communication issues myself where I just felt like I couldn’t talk to him and I’ve always been feeling so so depressed which just always resulted in an argument and him being mean in arguments etc etc .. he’s tried to get me back quite a lot of times but I stuck too just saying no to him. My depression had gotten worse after our breakup .

I had started speaking to somebody else since November which my ex does know about because of an old “friend” telling him and I had only just found out myself he is speaking too somebody else himself just by looking at his phone Home Screen as a few notifications just popped up.

This new guy I’m speaking too I’ve been on/off with him really as I still feel guilty and I’m unsure why I even do. I felt upset by him speaking too somebody which I don’t know why also. Even though me and my ex partner haven’t been together we have still been sleeping together quite a lot of the times too and had told him does this girl know you are still living with me or even know you sleep in the same bed as me which he answered no.
She had been messaging him also too show him messages and say do you think this fake account on fb might be your baby mum messaging me? Which I had told him no why am I going to waste my time making fake accounts speaking too her like im a child, and all this is making me want to message her and confront her now about it as unsure why she would even think it’s me as we don’t know eachother at all.

I don’t know what too do or where I’m at anymore too be honest

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CleanShirt · 24/01/2025 11:57

Might be wise to get your ex to move out before you start "speaking" to someone. What a mess.

LuckyHiker · 24/01/2025 12:14

No of course , me and the guy wasn’t speaking in a romantic way like that just as friends really but still feel guilty and upset. He knows my ex still lives with me and knows things go on as we spoken about it where as this girl my ex speaks to doesn’t know he sleeps with me or even lives with me and he’s already said things may progress with her but he doesn’t know as of yet .

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