I've had to call the police today to report my now ex and his cousin. I called them because he's been mentally abusing me for 4 years. He has a recently diagnosed cluster B personality disorder. He has relied heavily on me for money and supplies in general. He got into drugs which has made him even worse. His whole life is awful now. He's broke. Depressed. In and out of hospital with hallucinations. Hes always involved with dodgy people. The whole situation is a mess.
One of the things he does is he tells people I'm crazy. He tells his family I'm all these awful things. They are not true. But they believe him. His only remaining family member is a female who has been sending me vile abuse last week and trying to bully me over contacting his daughter. He refused to defend me which is why I've fully disconnected. Today he rings me calling me a cunt. A prick. Everything. He originally messaged to say if I still cared he's been in hospital. He then told me his cousins think I'm a piece of shit and I brought all the abuse in myself. I slightly lost my temper and Said you and your cousin sound like you want to sleep together. Never known a family as weird as yours. I then told him I was reporting it to the police.
I have called them. They want me to do screenshots. Someone will call Me to decide the next steps. But I feel quite anxious and distressed at the door I've opened. I didnt want it to come to this. But he's stolen and misled me over money so many times. He's lied to me about who he's spending time with. Who's living with him. He's smashed up cups in a temper but never hurt me.
I know he's mentally unwell but the level of abuse I've had because of the distress he's put onto me.
What do you think?