I met a friend through my ex partner as our boyfriends were best friends. I don’t see her often as she is quite flaky. She will cancel 50% of the time and usually on the day as she is always ill.
I am getting a bid fed up of her. The last 3 times we have been out she has this habit of saying let’s take turns a to pay for meals but I always end up paying as she lies and says she will
pay next time. She doesn’t work so seems to think she can get free meals out of people. I personally am happy to eat at home and meet for a drink instead to save money.
Recently I introduced her to a guy as I thought they were quite similar. I introduced them at a walk and they met on their own recently. He is besotted with her. She made him pay for the meal and drinks. He isn’t working due to disability then when she gets home she said it was friendship. He said he has never had a friend expect people to pay for them and struggles on a reduced income. It was unfair as she blatantly used him. All she ever asks him is money questions and about his house.
It was her birthday recently and she asked this guy to go bowling even though she met him twice and I never even got invited out. I dropped a birthday card off late at her house as the next day I was travelling early so could not have seen her. I sent a birthday message and FB post as people do.
This guy is besotted with her and she has been messaging him since her birthday. She is leading him to be honest and I have warned him to be careful. I find her strange as when she drops a card off for me she hounds me asking if I got it as she wants loads of praise and yet I send one, she says nothing.
Just fed up of being used. I feel quite insulted she out a stranger before me for a birthday celebration.