I've been with my partner for 7 years and we've been married for a year and a half. We have had our ups and downs like anyone but wee things kept niggling at me. Like if I wanted to go out with friends he would noticeably change and I used to dread having to tell him because he would get so annoyed and I felt rotten for going out. Anyway that's just one of the wee things I picked up on and also recently lots of people have commented on how they've seen my "sparkle" dim recently and I'm not the same person I was which I do agree with. I'm so emotional right now because one half of my brain is saying leave him and be free, live your life and the other half is saying no you love him and I really don't want to hurt him or break his heart and I feel so emotional when I think about it. I just feel like I love him but I'm not in love with him anymore and that breaks me. I dont know what to do. We've built a home and everything together and I just don't know how or if I should end it.