12 weeks pregant with baby no.2 and feeling miserable

[Karathraceandherspecialdestiny]

at the fact that I have not enjoyed this pregnancy like I did the first time around.

Granted, I have a 22 month old, and have been more sick and ill this time but instead of looking forward to extending our family, my partner and I seem barely on speaking terms. I've been so ill we haven't had sex in a couple of months which has never happened before in our (nearly) 10 year relationship. My toddler is up with the birds at the moment so we are both always asleep by 10pm, and as I'm not drinking we rarely make the effort to sit at the table and eat and chat at dinner time (quite frankly I'm too tired anyway). I feel that although this was a planned pregnancy it is in fact a bit of a burden to him as neither of us were dying for a 2nd child but thought it would be a more-rounded family and good for princess dd to have a sibling. Instead it feels like this poor unborn baby is driving our family unity apart!

Need to find a way of feeling close again but so resentful that he doesn't seem happier about the pregnancy and more thoughtful about the fact that I'm really really tired because of this.

Anyway sorry just had to get this off my chest.

Thanks Nocca. Yes am def feeling first trimester blues (no mood swings for me but I am tired and snappy and not much fun but then neither is he and what's his excuse??). Looking forward to 14 weeks plus when is when I started feeling better last time.