So a couple of years ago, Me and My husband were in bit of a bad place. After years of not drinking, he decided he wanted to start doing so with different couples etc at the weekends ( If we could get a baby sitter ).This went on for about a year, on and off. It only caused trouble as we argued a lot, and he was drinking way too much, and in my opinion, getting a bit close to some of my female friends.
There was 1 in particular who I knew he had a bit of a crush on, but I monitored his behavior and there was no problems. Towards the end though he started to make comments about her. It started off with complimenting what she was wearing, or saying her hair looked nice etc. At the end he was basically telling me how attractive he thought she was. That was when I reeled it all in. We stopped going out and drinking etc and started to work on eachother instead.
We are actually really good now and he’s apologized for how he acted, to cause arguments or the complimenting ‘said’ woman. He hasn’t seen her in person for atleast a couple of years now.
The other day he came back from the gym, and was telling me how his friend knew ‘said’ woman, and was saying how attractive he thought she was too, and how he would love to get with her etc.
Apart from telling me ( which is absolutely bizarre ), why is he still thinking and talking about this woman to other people? Is he obsessed? I forgot she even existed until he mentioned her, and was hoping he’d grown up and got over his stupid crush.
We stopped hanging out with her because drinking was all she ever wanted to do socially. So didn’t fall out as such, just stopped meeting up.