...with someone...lots in common, great conversation, good sex, enjoy their company but don't see them as often as you'd like and knew there was little chance of that changing and morphing into a 'proper' relationship for the foreseeable (talking years rather than months)...
...would you tell them if you decided to date other people?
I'm on the fence. I knew the score when we started seeing each other and was fine with it...in many ways I still am...my life is busy and I enjoy my freedom and my own company. But I'm not getting any younger and worry that in a few years time, or if the shit hits the fan I'll regret faffing about and wish I'd pursued finding a potentially more meaningful relationship.
OTOH, I hear and read so many horror stories I'm not at all convinced I'm likely to meet someone that fits the bill...pretty sure most decent single men aren't queuing in their droves to date overweight, middle aged, neurodivergent women 😂.
When I say dating I mean literally that, drinks, coffee, basically dipping my toe in OLD and a few social groups. If I was going to be sleeping with someone else I'd absolutely be up front and finish the situationship.
Just interested to hear others points of view I suppose.