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Strong feelings

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Lisa1m · 17/01/2025 12:44

Hey everyone!
I have a question.
I am 35 years old and feel mature enough. I am also a mother of a sweet son. I would consider myself as a healthy and aware woman in many aspects. I have social life, good relationships and settled life style. I wanted to give information about myself as much as I can, because my question is something related to state of mind.

There is someone that I like but please take it not really desperate situation. It is just finding someone attractive. I mean, I thought it was! I only know him from the place I work. Not in the same workplace, just in the same building. But everytime I see him, even though I dont have that much sexual tension, I feel like something happening in my body. It is weird, because that had never happened to me before -I have a very crowded background, I am aware of the feelings when we fall in love or something- but this guy made feel OMG something happening inside my body!! It’s not just something I feel in my body; it’s as if no one else exists but him. This isn’t a feeling of attraction—it’s more like I already knew him somehow, as if we urgently need to come together and talk. It’s an indescribable, strange feeling, on a spiritual level, far beyond just a racing heartbeat.

At first I like it, but now I just want it stop. Is anyone there who had an experience something like this?

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Gymbunny2025 · 17/01/2025 13:29

Sounds like a crush! Why can't you enjoy it?

Lisa1m · 17/01/2025 13:34

Gymbunny2025 · 17/01/2025 13:29

Sounds like a crush! Why can't you enjoy it?

That's the point! Because it is not a joy anymore. It has been almost 6 months and we have never been in touch, only greetings! I know he is single btw.
But it feels like it is mkre than a crush. I might go slightly mad..

I have a solid-strong feeling for hik that I could not resist.

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StrawberrySwitchblades · 17/01/2025 13:35

Are you single?

Lisa1m · 17/01/2025 13:40

StrawberrySwitchblades · 17/01/2025 13:35

Are you single?

Yes I am

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StrawberrySwitchblades · 17/01/2025 14:02

If you think he’s single too, why not just ask him out?

Lisa1m · 17/01/2025 14:04

StrawberrySwitchblades · 17/01/2025 14:02

If you think he’s single too, why not just ask him out?

Because we both are stuck in between somewhere. Also I am guessing that my ego does not let me do it

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