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Guy i was speaking to blocked me on a language exchange app but not on what’s app

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Loveforusall25 · 16/01/2025 23:55

Hi everyone I really need some advice on how to approach my situation. Please help! I met this guy on a language exchange app last year in November and we had been in communication daily ever since this until this past Sunday. A week or so after starting chatting him on the language exchange app he asked me for my number so we could chat on what’s app and I gave him my number. I ended up going to Dubai for three weeks on holiday and just got back and he went to Germany as he is half German during Christmas holidays but we stayed in touch. When we got back he said he wanted to do a video call with me and I was reluctant to do it honestly because I get anxiety when I do video calls but I promised him that the girl in the pictures is real ( I’m real btw). He wasn’t very happy with me for refusing him a video call but he said he still wanted us to meet. So we were supposed to meet on Saturday but he had a nasty cold and he told me he couldn’t meet up with me because he was still ill so I said that it was fine since his health should be a priority. Something had been a bit off since then he would always message me So last night I went on that language app and I was just curious so I wanted to go and check his profile there and I had a message saying that i couldn’t access his profile because he blocked me . This is very strange and odd as I don’t understand why he would block me but he hasn’t blocked me on what’s app as I can still see his last seen. I like this guy and we have been speaking since November and he really wanted to see me so I don’t understand why he would block me there. Can you guys try to help me understand this ?? I feel upset because I feel like there is something going on that I don’t know … I messaged him today in the morning and said to him if we could talk after work as there is something i needed to speak to him about so he said that yeah we should do that and I asked him if 7ish pm would be okay, this guy didn’t open and read my message till 9pm and he apologised for not responding on time but he said it was fine so I called me 30 minutes ago and he didn’t pick up my call . Just to put it out there he sleeps very late so I know he is mostly probably still awake because we used to chat late at night everyday. His last seen is around 9pm. I don’t know what to do now ?? What should I do ??? Please be kind to me as I’m having a hard time right now

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Trallers · 17/01/2025 00:05

It's hard to accept but he's telling you everything you need to know with his behaviour - he's not interested anymore and cant be bothered to tell you outright. He hasn't completely cut you off, perhaps because he wants an option hanging there. That hurts, as it should. Please use how you're feeling as your sign to forget about him, as disappointing as that is.

I would try and fill your time with as many distractions as possible and block and delete him.

I'm sorry Flowers

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