hello everyone. I’m new here. I’ve got into a relationship with someone. I’ve been with him a few months now. At the beginning of the relationship we had discussed whether either of us had cheated. He told me he had with his first girlfriend, not with his ex who he has children too. I don’t judge as everyone has a past and quite like that he was open and honest. He told me he would rather tell me everything at the start so there’s no surprises as time goes on. Then the conversation came up again recently and I asked again if he had cheated on his ex he had children with. He sat there thinking and said he kissed someone. So I was taken back as he hadn’t mentioned this previously. I asked him about it and he was saying “it’s not bad cheating though”. Told me I was attacking him and backing him into a corner. I was very calm when we spoke. I explained that now I feel a bit unsure as I’m worried that he may now do that to me. I was really looking for a little bit of reassurance, but I felt like the comments made me worse. I told him I wasn’t attacking him on his past I just needed reassurance from him that he wouldn’t do that to me and he still hasn’t done it that. Just wanted peoples opinions on this