Wife isn't bothered about my feelings

[Andyls]

Hi All,

Recently I've felt like my partner just doesn't think about me or care about my feelings at all. When I try to bring it up she just says ik been needy and the conversation ends there.

I feel like I'm bottom of the list and she treats everyone around us friends and family etc better than she does to me.

I'm genuinely questioning, if I can rely on her or trust that she actually cares about me. I feel like I'm just making excuses for her when she let's me down. But I don't think she cares about my happiness at all.

Things like not returning missed phone calls or replying to messages etc

But why are you ringing her?

OP, imagine having two grizzly little ones demanding food or drink or a cuddle. She's trying to prepare some food for them, while coping with one clinging to her leg, the other is crying on the floor with a stinky nappy, there is a courier ringing the door bell and she badly needs the loo.

That's a pretty typical hour in the life of a mum of two tinies.

Answering your call is a long way down the list. Give her four years and she'll surface. Don't have any more dcs. Think about having a vasectomy.

Don't imagine the OP will be back to answer the questions about the mental and domestic load.....😂

If “cuddling” leads to you getting a stiffy, groping her and expecting sex then I’m not surprised she doesn’t want to “cuddle”.

Stop whining, help with the house and kids, get a hobby independent from her and see how it goes.

You have two young children so life must be busy . What are the work/housework/childcare /social arrangements in your household?

Aww bless you 🙄