Own mother and sister - jealous / toxic

[deathbecomesherhead]

My own mother and sister are jealous of me.. I'm a SAHM and they both struggled,. I come from a poor background and now live well/comfortable and they hate it.. really struggling.. just fallen out with my sister due to her and her kids stealing from my house :/

My mum always takes her side and she is a single mum.. they hate it that I have a decent DH..

From my own experience, sadly, I think it is quite common.

I don’t know if there’s much you can do about it (I’m sure others will let you know some good tactics), but it’s good you recognise what their behaviour is.

just fallen out with my sister due to her and her kids stealing from my house

What did she steal?

I wouldn't invite her round to your homeany more. Meet them somewhere neutral if you have to.

Do not have nothing further to do with them going forward. No good to you will come from you having any contact with them and besides which your sister has stolen from your house.

your sister is most fortunate you have not seemingly gone to the police station (please consider informing them of the theft ). She being a single mother to her kids is no excuse. Your mother and sister are one and the same really, she’s her mini me.

@AttilaTheMeerkat exactly, they really are the same