Came across my fiances reddit comments

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Well he was sexting multiple naked women. The details wouldn't be suitable on this site. Says it all really. I'm thinking about leaving him over this. Could say more but I've had a long emotional night. Any advice?

There’s no answer other than leave him. What possible other alternative action is there?

Yeah I know. What a creep he turned out to be

Definitely end it . He doesn't respect you or your relationship.

It's grim isn't it.. Stuff like this gives me the ick and there's no coming back from it, no matter how good they are in other ways.

I am sorry, what a horrible, sleazy, trashy, shock for you.

Marriages should last decades. Do you want to spend decades with someone who behaves like this?

'Hi (friend) this is my husband Kevin, his hobbies are golf and sexting naked women online'.

I’m so sorry, I know it must be painful and it’s easy to come on here and say LTB, but I just can’t see any other way forward for you. You’ll be in for a world of pain if you continue the relationship. As a person who’s been through a divorce, I can honestly say better to find out now rather than after you’re legally tied together… as shitty and painful as it is.

How did you find them? Are you married?

Sorry just seen you're engaged...

Leaving will save you years of 'pretending' everything's fine.

Leaving will save you from an expensive divorce.

Leaving will save you from having children with this excuse for a 'man'.

Leaving will save you 18 years of having to communicate and co-parent with him, all while he continues to sext online.

Leaving is your only way of having the opportunity to find a loyal and honest partner in life, because you already KNOW that he is NOT either loyal or honest.

So, you have 2 choices;

1. Stay and gloss over what has happened, and allow him to sweet talk you into 'believing' it was a one off/mistake, which won't happen again.
2. Leave him, and his sexting/online sex to continue your life without the constant worry/anxiety that it will happen again or that other people will find out.

Choose carefully.