I am separating from my partner, it's been over a long time ! Years! I hate being in this house. I work full time and do all household duties. We have 2 children. He works part time.
We both own the house.
the atmosphere at home for me is claustrophobic and I just want it to be over and get a house of my own now. But will be long process with divorce.
i go out one evening a week, typically Saturday night.
I have had comments from soon be ex husband that apparently this is terrible behaviour and everyone he asks agrees.
I have absolutely no issues with him going out the other 6 nights if that's what he wants, does not bother me in the slightest.
if it was just me and kids alone I wouldn't feel need to go out but I can't stand being there most of time so feel I need that one night out to just be free and see friends and do as I please.
i am one who takes kids all kids parties, out every weekend doing some sort of activity. He does nothing with them never has.
am I that evil for having this one night a week to myself?