DH sleep in separate room

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It means we both sleep better separately- does anyone do this?

Yes saved my marriage and my sanity! We have a cuddle etc and then straight to my own room for a blissful snore free nights sleep :/)

Yes my DH is a snorer and we have a toddler that wakes many times at night still so I need my sleep…. although can’t see myself going back to sharing ever….i love a bed to myself

Yes, we started when the dc were babies and still haven't moved back in together! Just don't sleep as well...snoring, sleep talking, I need loads of covers, he gets too hot etcetera

My DH works shifts so if he's early he's in the spare room.
I love the bed to myself!!

Yes, been doing this on and off for a while now. Recently it's become more of a permanent thing. But we often cuddle in one bed and fall asleep together, then one of us goes to the other room later.
Works for us!

Yes, although we cuddle in one bed before separating and then get back into bed together for a morning cuddle before getting up for work / weekend

Same - cuddle and fall asleep then I kick him out when he starts snoring😅I felt bad for a while but he’s ok with it as it means we both get uninterrupted sleep (I used to nudge him everytime he wakes me up snoring).

Thanks for creating this post!

We don't but I have several friends that do all due to snoring - mostly the dh

Dh lost a fair bit of weight a few years ago which stopped his snoring otherwise I was on the verge of moving dh to the spare room separate beds. Mind you, love having a bed to myself!

Yes, we tend to sleep aoarr on working days so we both sleep well before work, then sleep together at weekends.

Yes. Good sleep should be prioritised above everything. DP is an extremely light sleeper and I can't really sleep well with anyone else in the room, let alone bed. It wasn't sustainable even medium-term let alone long-term, we'd have been so ratty from the lack of sleep we'd have killed each other within a month. We were both single for quite a while before meeting so got very used to having our own space at night.

It doesn't affect cuddling, sex or intimacy of any kind and I've always been a bit confused at the idea it should.

We've always done it, we have different sleep patterns - I'm asleep by 10 and up by 5 - also I go to work on different days so would disturb him

Don't actually like sharing a bed now

Yes we have separate rooms and also separate bathrooms - works for us