Hi, myself and my ex were together for over 8 years.
Last month we started not getting on and had a few major rows as I felt he wasnt listening to me. He suddenly dumped me 4 weeks ago saying we weren't working and couldnt marry due to this. Exchanged xmas presents still, he took his engagment ring off xmas day he said, and then I found out 2 days later through facebook he was already with a work colleague who he had said was not someone to worry about.
He didn't seem very keen on her. Mutual friends are so shocked about him and her, about him and me.
When we split he did seem unsure for a few days.
She is also rebounding and has severe issues. She has a history of violence and is up and down, had a recent end life attempt and tbh i dont know what he sees in her at all. I had to block her as she started being mean to me through social media.
I have lost a stone already through stress although i needed to.
I just want to know wether he will come back.
Apart from december we were so close and were best friends with intense chemistry. Im thinking she was there while we were going through issues and visa versa.
Any advice? I am not ready to move on I just want him. How can someone be with someone that long and our familys were entwined to dating someone else in so little time. A work person.
Life feels so unfair. He was such a nice bloke I dont recognise him now. We were so well fitted never thought we break up now he has someone else and has blocked me.
Just so angry right now that the sadness has lifted. Thank you.