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Was it just a one off random drunk flirt or should I shoot my shot

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Bluejeansrose78 · 07/01/2025 19:25

Think I missed a opportunity

So I was working at this pub, there was this regular who would come in and was pretty close with one of the guys who worked there, when I was working there I did notice he would flirt everynow and then and he did once say ‘i was the best thing to happen to the pub’ though I did take this with a pinch of salt. A couple of people would tell him off for checking me out as well.

However I didnt really chat much or be overly flirty with him but I did fancy him a little but never went for it as i had a crush on the manager at the time 🙈

However i have since left the pub and i havent really seen him at all properly until NYE when I went to the pub to see some friends who still worked there and he happened to be there, and we all stayed to close. I did notice right away that he was being more overly flirty, said we could share a chair, was asking how old I was and he even loudly said he was single.

I did flirt back a fair bit, but I think I was a bit tipsy to really properly do anything. I think i’m overthinking and it was probably only a drunken thing but I dont think i realised till now that I do fancy him and now likely wont see him again.

I was staying round my friends so left pretty early and when we left he was on his own outside but as my friends we running for a taxi i didnt say bye properly.

Do you think i lost a shot at something even if its just a hookup or should I ask my friend to wing woman me a bit with him

OP posts:
Kashmiri24 · 07/01/2025 19:36

Give him a ring and ask him out.

username299 · 07/01/2025 19:44

I'd ask at the pub if anyone knows him and try to get his number.

Bluejeansrose78 · 07/01/2025 19:45

Kashmiri24 · 07/01/2025 19:36

Give him a ring and ask him out.

I dont have his number, he doesnt have mine and he’s not on social media

OP posts:
CharlotteSometimes1 · 07/01/2025 19:50

i think you should ask yourself why you didn’t do anything about it when you worked there. Ok you fancied the Manager, but if you were really into this guy that wouldn’t have stopped you. You sound a bit lukewarm about him.

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