Ive met a girl online and she really wanted to move to the Netherlands, and in December, she stayed with me for a few days. We did fun things together went out for dinner, but I didn’t feel the same attraction as I’ve had with other women in the past. I do find her sweet and lovely, and I wanted to give it a shot to see if that attraction would develop.
So, I went to visit her on January 1st, but again, I didn’t feel that attraction. I think she’s great and super sweet, but I’m really disappointed that I’m experiencing this. So i left her the next day after that I spoke with her, and she told me that sometimes it takes time to develop physical attraction to someone. She believes it could still happen, and she’s even willing to come to me to make it work.
I told her I will give it another try, but I’m still not sure if it will work out. I’ve never met someone as sweet and caring as her, and I’ve been crying since I left her and even yesterday because I feel so torn while i came home from schotland because im living in the netherlands, I still feel sad and disappointed in myself.
She still wants to see me and we might do it but I'm to afraid its not going to work out.
Im also really bad at being alone and it feels that's also an issue with me that seeks someone just to talk with in my life.
Does anyone have any tips or has anyone been through something similar? Did I give up too quickly? Does this mean it could still work out?