Last week I was sat with my bf he was searching someone up on Facebook and I seen his exs name was in the search bar, I didn’t say anything and I’m not sure if he noticed Id even seen it. We haven’t been together long and they had only been split up 2 months before we met, I first thought he was probably just being nosey so tried to just forget about it. Tonight while he’s asleep I had that horrible urge to just look on his phone and seen he’s not friends with her on Facebook and her profile is pretty much private other than profile pics. I went on to his activity log and seen he’s searched her account 7 times starting from 24th xmas eve, and last time being this morning while he would have been on a break at work. I’m pretty certain they aren’t in any contact and I understand people can get curious and want a nose but her profile is private so I can’t help but find this really strange and wonder what he’s looking for exactly? When we got together he told me they were on and off for a few years but towards the end she was verbally abusive towards him so he ended things for good and she seemed to accept it.
I know me snooping was a major red flag but after speaking to a friend I think I’ve come to the conclusion I’m maybe just the rebound and this relationship probably wouldn’t work anyway with me snooping. Should I just end things here? Any advice welcome please