Moved out of London to a fairly rural town with hubby when my first was born - never really felt I fitted in the countryside is nice but i find it boring here the weather isn't great either - this was ok i plodded along the kids are now at uni/just started working and the move was good for them school wise safety etc. I am the biggest earner and constantly feel stressed I feel i need to meet like minded people but dont know where to start my office is only small and not sociable at all the small town mentality is all gossip and not much else which i find tedious. Feel its a bit empty nest after devoting so much time to kids - people here seem to revolve a lot of socialising around drinking - i barely drink. The culture is minimal too. Feel lost.