Hello everyone, have NC for this.
Been seeing a guy for about 3-4 months now. We always meet up for dinner and drinks. I haven’t been to his place yet, he hasn’t been to mine. He said he believes in building a connection before becoming intimate. He seems to want to take things slowly which is also happy with.
He’s very open with his phone and has shared lots about his life with me. Regularly sends me photos of what he’s doing, photos with his family etc.
But there are times when I won’t hear from him for two (sometimes three) days. It’s not often, just occasional, but I can’t help but find it a little off that his communication drops like this. I really don’t believe that he’s cheating or being shady - except this does niggle me somewhat!
Do you think it’s likely this could be a sign that something isn’t right? He seems very invested, bar the occasional dip in communication.
I intend to address this with him as I don’t like the anxious feeling it gives me. Just wondered if anyone else has experienced similar - did it reveal anything untoward?
Thanks in advance for reading.