My partner finished with me last night as I apparently clean and tidy the house too much. I have hoovered twice over the Xmas period and cleaned the shower twice, as well as general tidying and cleaning of kitchen surfaces etc.
I need some perspective on this. He says that I care more about cleaning than being with him and that he feels neglected. He does nothing around the house. Nothing! There are 7 of us and all I do is clear up after everyone. He also says that his 2 children have told him that they are scared of going into our lounge for fear of making a mess. I don't believe him as he lies all the time, particularly when things aren't going his way. When I said that I would apologise to them if I have made them feel like that, he got v angry and said that under no circumstance was I to mention a single word to them. They are teenagers who eat, drink and sprawl all over the sofas, albeit not often as they prefer to stay in the bedroom.
Please help me make sense of all this. I said I need humour but I am actually broken!
Thanks for reading