I don’t know what to do

[Delly9]

I blocked a friend 5 years ago. She called me lazy as I wasn’t working at the time. I had told her I had been very ill so couldn’t work but she seems the sort who judges by appearances and thinks there is nothing wrong. Shortly after she sent a birthday card and Christmas card but I ignored it as I was still hurt.

The other day I thought about her. I unblocked her on Facebook and WhatsApp. She had also blocked me on Facebook as other friends can see her, though she has not blocked me on WhatsApp.

I really wish I confronted her at the time as she probably wonders why I cut her off. I should not have allowed her to be so disrespectful but I had not got the energy as I was unwell. I don’t like ghosting people.

I started working again a few months after that incident and my health finally recovered after a number of years. I just wish this friend had not been so unkind, judgy and unsupportive was I was unwell.

I don't suppose she will have wondered, given as she was so unkind. I wouldn't waste time thinking about her and definitely don't for the lords sake reach out to her, she will only bring you negativity.

That’s what worries me is she would bring negativity and have a go at me even though what she did was wrong.

Well, hopefully you can feeling less like you need to justify yourself to anyone. And also develop a thicker skin.

She was in the wrong.

You dealt with it.

She's in the past.

And she should stay in your past.

Stay away from her.
No good will come from being in touch with her.