Before anyone jumps down my throat .
I know, I know I should not have looked but I did and now my mind is racing.
To cut a long story short I've been in a relationship with a man for over a year and it really has been pretty amazing.
It's the most healthy and happy relationship I've ever been in so I'm kind of cross with myself for even feeling this way right now... but I do.
Let's call this man Jon.
A couple of weeks ago Jon brought up a lady he had been seeing casually like an fwb situation before he met me , claiming he hadn't see her in over a year. She had never been mentioned before. I knew about his children's mum who he had a relationship with for 10 years but he had never mentioned this other lady until that evening.
The reason she came up in conversation was because he told me this lady reached out to him and sent him a txt one morning (the day b4 our conversation) her txt said why did you call me at midnight Jon ?
He said he was confused as initially he didn't even know who was msging him and had to msg back who is this ? As he had deleted all her contact info when they ended thier fwb situation as she turned a bit obsessive turning up at his home and work unannounced.
He then said he freaked out looked through his call list was very confused and replied back to her I didn't call you , it wasn't me.
She then went on to try and initiate a conversation with him but he cut it bluntly telling her he was in a relationship with me . ( I am all over his social media) see his mum and family regularly it's well known he is in a relationship if she wanted to find out.
He offered to let me look at his phone, I said no thank you , I want to trust you and I do. I really did and still do ( I think , believe him)
Fast forward to last night nye , he had to cancel our plans as he was really unwell , which again I believed.
He was gutted we couldn't spend nye together , it's a bug so we both didn't want to risk me catching it.
Today randomly this lady has been coming up as a friend suggestion on my FB.
I knew her name and where she lived as he had told me and had been open about everything to do with her.
I ignored the friend suggestion this morning, however this afternoon it's was still there.
I know I shouldn't but I looked at her fb profile. There was nothing unusual about it and it said she was single.
I could see the blue ring around her profile picture so I did it , I viewed her stories. She put 4 different memes up one after the other. Kind of cryptic memes about a man.
I'm probably putting 2 and 2 together and coning up with 9 🙄😞 but if I show them on here can you let me know if you think this is just all way too much of a coincidence??