What would you do?

[BeMerryGoose]

Hi everyone,

me and my boyfriend of 2 years are looking to move in together this year, we are both originally from differnt areas of England and are looking to both move roughly 20 miles away from both of the towns we grew up in.
He has said that he would go back every couple of months to his home town to see friends and relatives and stay the night up there.
i said to him I don’t understand why you’d stay up the night and not just get the last train back.
am I being unreasonable thinking that he should come back and not stay the night up there?
please give me your honest opinions as we have been going through a bit of a rough patch recently.

He wants you to move in together (?), but he's already planning trips back to his home town without you, and wanting to stay there overnight? Considering he's already cheated on you, think about that.

Don't mar your life with a cheat, so early on in your relationship.

You’re focusing on the wrong issue

Him wanting to visit friends/family overnight is not a problem at all and is actually healthy imo.

The fact hrs cheated on you early in the relationship is the big problem here and I think you would be insane to move in with a man who’s already shown you he’s a cheating liar

You can’t trust him before you live together - you never will. Please find your dignity and end it.