Hi all, first timer here. Just after some advice really. Been with partner for 3 years. We split all our household bills mortgage, CT, gas, electric, car insurance down the middle - no problems. We both had cars which we traded in and I pay this finance monthly.
recently we had a repair for £2,500 which I paid and he didn’t even offer to help me with this, I always pay for the food shop (bulk) sometime £200 a month, he doesn’t offer to help, he also allows me to pay for meals out and then Shouts from the roof top that he’s paid for a takeaway for me!
i have just spent £1,500 on wardrobes for our home but he always talks to people like he’s paid for these and appears
to take credit for us building our home when it’s my money I’m investing into us!
I rarely get a thank you for everything I do for him and his kids. He does cook most meals and I do all the household chores, I can work up to 50-60 hours a week and he is at home a lot more than me!
im starting to resent him slightly as he’s never complimentary about me, he is less affectionate with me and I really don’t know what to do! I don’t want to be unhappy with this guy!