*TW* - Can this be classed as consensual?

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Teens drinking in the park. All pretty wasted. Most leave, leaving only 18 year old girl and 19 year old boy. Girl kisses boy. Boy takes it further, keeps asking if girl is ok with it. Girl says yes. They have sex. Unprotected (🙄).

Boy then has to practically carry girl into a taxi to get her home. She keeps falling asleep/unconscious in the back of the taxi. Gets her home and has to knock on house and get her parents to help him get her out of the taxi because girl can't walk on her own and keeps falling asleep.

Can the sex really be classed as consensual if the girl is that drunk? Especially as she was a virgin beforehand. Not to mention it took place in a wet, cold park in the late afternoon!

Girl thinks it was consensual because "she never said no" but completely regrets it. She's not outwardly upset over it and keeps saying she's ok.

Your OP says that the boy "keeps" asking if it's OK and she says yes. So I don't think it's non-consensual, but the boy was morally in the wrong. What girl wants to lose her virginity that way? What boy who has respect for the woman would even want her to do it in a cold park??? He was being a selfish male who just wanted to get his end away with no thought for the woman. It doesn't sound as if it would meet the legal definition of non-consensual, but I do think he took advantage of her, as is shown by how much she regrets it now.

She needs a pregnancy test and STD tests as well. Even if he says he was a virgin too, don't take his word for it, because common infections like chlamydia can affect fertility in women.

There's a young man in my family who went absolutely wild at uni, sleeping with every woman he could. He's very tall, very good-looking, and his parents are insanely rich, so he didn't find it hard to pull. BUT, he received a great piece of advice from the tribal elders, which he stuck to. He would not have sex with a woman if she was drunk or even just tipsy. He had situations where the woman was saying how much she wanted him, and he would stand back and say I can't sleep with you because you've had too much to drink. He would only have sex if the woman was sober.

I think that's a great lesson for any young man.