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He cheated and i block him but he finds new way to msg me. I'm too weak

7 replies

Alicew00 · 30/12/2024 14:32

We broke up because he sexted other women a few months ago. He said it was just a bad choice as were happy but he thought we were gonna break up again and didn't want to do it alone. The reason was because we'd split up twice before in 3 years I tried hard to stop myself messaging him back and blocked him but created a new acocunt. And when i joined a dating app he was on it, he messaged me on that and i couldn't help myself talking back.
Now he has gone out to town with his auntie but I'm paranoid.
He agreed to let me follow him on app but it's not moving. It shows he is still home and i think hes using his old phone. I don't believe a thing he says. I need some willpower.
Help 😫😩

OP posts:
rosesl · 30/12/2024 18:28

Just block him and keep him blocked. He's a liar and a cheat and you can't trust him. Get some self worth and find someone who you can trust

Alicew00 · 01/01/2025 22:47

You're probably right. He planned to spend new years eve with me just to break it off with me. Said he can't just swtich back to normal with us yet he still slept with me. I think he also wants to let go but finding it very hard. I just wish we could start again.

OP posts:
username299 · 01/01/2025 22:56

Carry on OP. You're checking his movements like a mentalist and he has sexual incontinence. It's worth investing your precious time and emotions into this shit show.

northernlight20 · 01/01/2025 22:59

Crack on, in the meantime, I would suggest you have regular std tests. On the other hand, you could block and move on from this shit show, there are good men out there. You don’t have to settle!

NotThisShitAgain121 · 20/05/2025 12:34

Block him on everything and don't contact him. He is a bastard who is messing with you. Don't let him. I would rather be alone that with someone who did that to me. You are worth so much more than the way he treats you.

WildCats24 · 20/05/2025 12:45

Raise your bar.

DeSoleil · 20/05/2025 14:05

Sadly, he has nothing but contempt for you. He doesn’t mind having sex with you as it’s a nice little power trip for him but he cares not one bit for your emotional welfare.

He’s got you exactly where he wants you, hanging on desperate for some titbit he may throw you!

Find your anger and your strength and never have any contact with him again.

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