Sorry if this would have been better placed in the pregnancy forum but I’m actually not sure pregnancy is definitely the problem here - I hope it is, and that things will go back to normal afterwards, but at the moment it feels like I’ve crossed over some threshold and now am just in a very desexualised relationship. I’m currently in the third trimester and don’t feel particularly like I want sex anyway, but it is bothering me that DH literally never initiates anymore. We get into bed and say goodnight and that’s that, and I don’t get the feeling it’s because he’s not wanting to impose himself on me, more that he just doesn’t want to have sex with me. It upsets me because pre-pregnancy we would have sex daily. I know it’s really fair enough for him to not want sex at the moment, like feeling the baby moving might be off putting, and it’s not like we don’t cuddle/kiss etc but I just keep remembering how it used to be and how sexually orientated he can be/used to be, and the difference between that and now is just making me feel so frumpy and awful. I tried talking to him about it and he denied there was a problem, and I don’t really want to bring it up again because I don’t want to pressure him or for him to feel like it’s an obligation, but I just keep imagining what he’d be like with another new/non pregnant woman compared to how he is with me and it just makes me feel so low. I don’t think my body has changed massively in pregnancy, obviously I have a big bump but I haven’t really gained weight anywhere else, don’t have stretchmarks etc. I really don’t know what to do to make myself feel better and less unattractive, I guess I’m just looking for people with similar experiences… even if not pregnancy related, how did you get out of a no sex slump?