So in late September I had this awful gut feeling, it made me terribly unwell. I've never looked through his phone, not once in the 10 years we've been together. I found out that night he had been messaging girls throughout the whole relationship. Nothing physical, but mostly sending heart and kiss emojis, asking girls if they want to meet up, calling them "fit" etc. Most never replied or viewed tue message, and others knew we were together and called him scum. He said nothing would've ever come of it, so I stupidly looked past it. Tonight we were getting our son to sleep, he decided to stay in bed. I went down to the sofa. His phone was charging next to me. Next thing he comes storming in and grabbed his phone in an urgent manner. I asked what the problem was, he said he didn't want to cause an argument, it's his to do what he pleases and that I'm up to no good (self projection?). He's definitely doing it again, isn't he? I've been cheated on too many times in previous relationships, why do I never learn.. 😣