Short history we are in a rut, had so many traumas have happened to us in last few years, wonder we are together but we are. We can function but we are both very unhappy and unfulfilled. 2 kids are main reason for trying hard to patch things up,we both feel very strongly about that.
So sat in session last night listening to him clearly stating his opinions, not really heard that before. I thought he was a cold man who had such a low opinion of me and had stopped listening to me as he just thinks I am damaged and fundamentally unhappy, blaming him for the unhappiness. He is obsessed with making money, we're talking millions. His work has already taken its toll on us. He's not working at the minute but I am clear that being the wife of a money making obsessed machine is not going to do it for me! We are already financially secure. And he wants staff = nanny, housekeeper and chaffeur. Who is this man I thought. I thought he was so unattractive and cold. This is just not the life we presently lead and not one I am comfortable with. Will it get better?