I mean, what's the psychology of it? Regularly I haven't done x or y or z right. I try to remember it all but I can't keep on top of it all - and I would consider myself a fairly tidy, organised person!
I just don't get why you'd want to nag the person you'd married? I mean yes obviously the odd irritable word when someone's forgotten to take the bins out but regularly about relatively small things? What's the logic behind it?