Ive been with my partner for 8 months. I’m very happy with him especially after having been in an abusive relationship for many years.
There is one thing that makes me feel uncomfortable and that is the huge difference in our salaries. He earns around 7,000 and I earn about 1,700. I’m worried that whatever gift I buy will never be good enough. He likes high end brands where a coat alone is worth 1,000 and obviously I can’t afford that.
He has a bag which he uses daily that looks worse for wear and I’d like to get him a new one but I’m not sure if that’s a nice gift idea or not ?
I also bought him a lovely polo shirt that I’m sure he’ll like.
I think I have difficulty with this as my ex was very psychologically abusive towards me especially about things I’d buy and now I feel nothing is good enough.