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My friend

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dawn132 · 24/12/2024 14:13

This is the second Christmas on the trot that I've not heard from one of my oldest and dearest friends. Very out of character for her. We didn't always see each other often but she always sent birthday and Christmas cards.
She is no longer at the address I have for her and has disappeared from social media. Her mobile number is disconnected. I have messaged one of her relatives on FB (who I knew vaguely when we were kids) but they said hadn't heard from her in several years and had no idea of her whereabouts. I found this a little odd, considering how close they were.
I've even contacted her nearest council to enquire about any death records (worst case scenario!) records matching her details, but they didn't have any.
Not sure what else to try. Should I give up? This friend has my address and all other contact details, so would it be best to leave the ball in her court? She has a history of poor mental health and has suffered depression for a long time, historically this meant she could drop off the radar for a couple of years but she ALWAYS emerged eventually, and still always sent cards. This is why I'm worried, its all so out of character.

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hedgehogsinthehedgerow · 24/12/2024 14:36

It doesn't sound like there's anything else you can do. Perhaps she emigrated.

Strapon · 24/12/2024 14:42

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Cosmosforbreakfast · 24/12/2024 14:42

Do you have mutual friends, do you know any of her other friends? What about her former neighbours? Depending on her age is there any possibility she's in a care home now? She may have emigrated. She may have chosen to cut off everyone and make a fresh start for herself. It might be best to just leave the ball in her court now and hopefully you'll hear from her again.

Ladyof2025 · 24/12/2024 15:13

Surely if you wanted you to know where she was, or if you wanted to make contact with you, she wouldn't have changed her address her phone number etc or without telling you and then stopped contacting you.

Thpathtic · 24/12/2024 15:23

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