What is he doing?

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OMG, please help.

My very long term DH is giving me serious ick. It's like he has lost all finesse in the art of romance & shagging.

Lately, he has started using juvenile innuendo, suggesting sex. Or, he whips his dick out in front of me, waving it around. Like the sight of his penis will be enough to whip me into a horny frenzy where I must jump him immediately.

Best of all, he's started using this ridiculous statement "are you scared"? Like, he'll make a sexually charged comment, then follow it up with "unless your scared"? Or "are you scared "? It's uber embarrassing, on his part.

Reminds me of something a pimply 16 year old would say after a date, to pressure a girl into sex.

It's horrible, awful, vagina clamping shut, nasty!

Why is he acting like this? It's like he's lost his ability to seduce me or make any smooth moves. We are almost 50 FYI.

"And that's why we can't go back to Tesco's"

my husband and I are in our 30s together for 17 years. Great sex is always something that has come very naturally to us however, my husband hit a bit of a wall after a dry spell (having a baby). It’s like he actually lost the knowledge of how to have great sex and how to seduce me. He kept flopping it out in my face or asking me in a way that came across immature. Ick!
I put up with it for a couple months but I then started to just tell him outright that it didn’t do it for me and to seduce me like old times and he did. Sometimes communication is all it takes even if it’s a hard conversation to have.

sorry to hear that OP ! Yes complacency creeps in and I think also they feel more comfortable letting the ick they might be producing in us not bother them :(