Introducing a young girl to the new partner

[Fabian239]

When is it best to go full ahead with the child and a new partner. After 3 dates my granddaughters dad has introduced his new girlfriend, and my granddaughter has got into bed with them both in the morning. I’m horrified by this as is my daughter. He thinks he’s in the right but I don’t. What’s your ideas on this please

Absolutely crazily irresponsible, and she (the new girlfriend) is an idiot for going along with it.

I agree with you OP, but unfortunately there's not much you can do about it.

I’m horrified with you.

Well I agree with you but it's not up to us or even your daughter. He can do as he pleases in his time as hard as that is.

Although if it was phrased the opposite way and how he would feel if his DD climbed in bed with your DD and her new bf I'm sure he might change his tune

I’m horrified along with you OP. Its so far beyond inappropriate.

Even introducing a child to a soneone after a few dates is shocking but to have her in bed with them - absolutely grim and inappropriate as fuck