Non molestation order.

[ladybird2024]

Hi,

Just need some advice really. I've had to get a non molestation order out on my ex due to harassment's and stalking etc etc, yesterday he had been threatening me saying he's going to stick up for himself and has hired a barrister because he's not having his name tarnished. He has said he's going to go for it in regards too everything telling them about my mental health, saying how apparently my 14 year is a danger to our daughter, he's going to get social services involved, he has lots of evidence of texts and pictures of apparent DV from me and how he won't accept my mum being the middle person if this gets granted. I mean are they even interested in all this? Because it's a non molestation order this isn't to do with a child arrangements is he trying to scare me? I'm already stressed as it is as the first hearing is Monday 23rd December!

Hi, I'm ok I've got another court hearing on Tuesday, I've put forward all the messages, police incidents numbers and witness statements and my new statement, he told me a load of bull shit a few weeks back that he won't be seeing his daughter because he's been advised not too by his solicitor which was a lie because I got the report for the last hearing and he wasn't represented by anyone so I have no idea why he lied. For me it was just proof he was trying to manipulate me again as he kept trying to make me cancel the court order and because I said no he said that, I've had my mum be the middle person the last three weeks because I just cannot deal with him, the lies, the manipulation the abuse I get constantly and him using our daughter as a weapon it's just too much. I'm just hoping next Tuesday they grant the order but apparently the evidence I sent will be used when he responds to my original statement which he is yet to do so. It's just a long process when he should have just accepted it but I knew he was going to make things as awkward and long winded as possible.