Brief backstory.
Met a guy on online dating who said he had females friends and I’d have to be cool with that. I was.
Then I found out he met them on dating apps.
Then that he’d slept with them.
Then it became apparent he was jealous of one of them having a boyfriend.
Then another wanted to go away with him and I said fine but he said no because she might try it on.
The one wanted him to run errands.
Anyway. I said to tell them all straight and we’d be good and instead he said he’d blocked them all.
I found it frustrating as a solution but whatever. They were gone and I could forget all about them.
Fast forward six months and we’re living together and everything seems good on the face of it until I spot a mutual friend in a Facebook group and it’s one of these girls.
A quick search and he’s friends with all the girls on Facebook and I can feel the walls crashing down around me.
I ask him about it and he said he blocked on them insta, never uses Facebook to chat etc
He doesn’t like being accused. I’m paranoid etc etc etc etc
I believe he’s not chatting with them but the thought of him checking up on their profile (if he does) upsets me a little.
Mostly though, I’m devastated that he said he blocked them and I just completely accepted it and he didn’t.
Also he seems to be using loopholes to justify it. Am I crazy to think that blocking someone means from your life and not just insta?
Now it’s been a couple of days and he said he’d block them again but also said he wasn’t sure which girls I meant so maybe he missed one.
The question is whether I deliberately check if he’s blocked them all and if he hasn’t do I now insist that he does because that’s what he said he’d do?