Hi, I have another long running thread where I've had so much support and finally leaving my partner. He has been emotionally and financially abusive I think and has had me paying 2/3 of the mortgage for years. He's been abusive to the dog I'd say too, pinning her down and yanking her lead for misbehaving. I'm finally leaving and we are sorting all the practical stuff. He's gone between being so nice and saying he will change, we can move house, not pay 2/3 mortgage anymore and all the rest. But also then blaming me and saying I'm so negative and it's all my anxiety, I never forgive him for anything and I've been terrible to him. Either way the relationship is just so so over and nothing can convince me to stay. But guess I just need a handhold to remind me I am doing the right thing. Just feels so scary at the moment but trying to keep moving forward.