Been having some issues at work, including potential redundancy looming but there's no clarity yet about that. Met partner today and discussed and asked for advice. I said let's talk about it now and then we can have some drinks and get on with the afternoon. He told me to tell him and then button it. I wasn't sure I'd heard correctly and asked if he'd said what I thought and he said yes. I told him it wasn't just boring chit chat, it was my life and future, and he told me I don't have a sense of humour. I'm fed up of being told I don't have a sense of humour when he says things like this.