A few years ago I met a bloke on Hinge that I liked. We got on well, had similar interests and things were easy between us. We casually dated for the best part of a year. He very abruptly told me he was sorry but couldn’t carry on with the relationship as he wanted to focus on his professional qualifications (he was going through some tough family stuff). Any in that time I have since moved to another UK city. When I messaged him back saying I wished him all the best and it would have been nice to have had this conversation in person he just left me on read.
He randomly texted me in the middle of the night a few days ago. I mean we have been having great text and face time conversations but I know he cannot move (sick parent) and I have no wish to do so either.
I reckon he is just bored and lonely. I mean I am too. I just don’t get the point.
We are both late 20s.
I know he felt it a shame that life sort of conspired against us not being able to have a proper relationship. But he was so callous at the end.
I’m considered successful, educated and classically beautiful. I’m almost 30 and just do not want to waste my good years on a dead end.
Why has he messaged? We’ve slipped right back into just talking. It is nice but what is the point?