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What does it mean when a person heart reacts to your text message?

37 replies

ShannaP · 15/12/2024 16:58

This is a real question I'm not trolling I don't use this feature. Therefore, I have no clue as to what it means when a person uses it as a response to my text message. My friend heart reacted my message I sent her yesterday when I told her the Christmas card, she sent me was cute and thanked her for it. A guy heart reacted my message when I told him I want to be friends and have sex with him.

I know other people use this feature as well so can someone tell me (without being rude) what this means?

OP posts:
betterangels · 15/12/2024 17:49

Crushed23 · 15/12/2024 17:01

It's liking / acknowledging your message.

I use this feature when there isn't much to say by way of response to a message / photo / video.

This is how I use it. Instead of thumbs-up really because that's seen as passive aggressive now, apparently.

ohyesido · 15/12/2024 17:52

@Miyagi99

OP casually referenced that it was a friend, nothing wrong with it of course we just weren't quite so blasé about it in my day

ohyesido · 15/12/2024 17:53

And heart reacts mean little, they're generally preferred to the thumbs up which is deemed extremely rude

GinToBegin · 15/12/2024 18:02

betterangels · 15/12/2024 17:49

This is how I use it. Instead of thumbs-up really because that's seen as passive aggressive now, apparently.

I’ve seen that, but I’m reclaiming the thumbs up as meaning okay/agreement.

Mind you, I also use Regards to close an email, which is apparently a colossal ‘fuck you’ to most people. I don’t mean it in a pass-agg way, I just think ‘Kind regards’ is twee.

smithey85 · 15/12/2024 18:17

It’s usually followed by no or very little written response so is just a lazy way of acknowledging the message and agreeing with it / liking what you’ve said but can’t be bothered to actually write a message back.

In always take them with a tiny pinch of salt.

cidiyic · 15/12/2024 18:23

It literally means nothing. It means someone has seen your text and can't be bothered to properly reply so in the work of moment just clicks on a heart or a thumbs up to show they've seen it.

If you are trying to over analyse this you are wasting your time and the man is not for you.

Havalona · 15/12/2024 18:23

Who decided the thumbs up was verboten now?

It's the best neutral "OK thanks/great" I know! Hearts are for lovers. I can't use a heart with my friend. What am I supposed to do. I use the thumbs up all the time.

God I'm sick of these emoji rules that are making me out to be an ogre or a bitch. I'm not!

Gertrudesinthegutter · 15/12/2024 18:55

Havalona · 15/12/2024 18:23

Who decided the thumbs up was verboten now?

It's the best neutral "OK thanks/great" I know! Hearts are for lovers. I can't use a heart with my friend. What am I supposed to do. I use the thumbs up all the time.

God I'm sick of these emoji rules that are making me out to be an ogre or a bitch. I'm not!

You’ve said it perfectly - I’m always uncomfortable sending a heart acknowledgment to anyone that isnt family, when thumbs up is just right.

Uricon2 · 15/12/2024 19:24

GinToBegin · 15/12/2024 18:02

I’ve seen that, but I’m reclaiming the thumbs up as meaning okay/agreement.

Mind you, I also use Regards to close an email, which is apparently a colossal ‘fuck you’ to most people. I don’t mean it in a pass-agg way, I just think ‘Kind regards’ is twee.

I hate "Kind regards" so very, very much. It's an infection.

PromoJoJo · 15/12/2024 19:29

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WalterdelaMare · 15/12/2024 19:36

My friend sent me a message today ‘so lovely to see you last night’ so I sent a heart back.

If a guy I barely knew did it, I’d think it was a tad creepy. And girly. It’s quite a girly thing to do.

liveforsummer · 15/12/2024 19:45

Much the same as a thumbs up but for someone you are closer to so a mate or a fwb the heart is about right just as an acknowledgment/to show they agree or like it

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