Been with DH for some years now. I don’t really go out, I don’t drink very much either. I was a mad wildchild in my youth and I’m retired from that life. I’ve been out twice this year socially without DH, my choice to rarely go out and he wouldn’t tell me not to. We don’t drink together much either, it’s not part of our social lives. DH can go out whenever he wants to, but he doesn’t much and usually we each just go to our annual work Christmas party and the other person stays sober and provides lifts.
I went on my work do last night. DH offered to pick me up afterwards. It got late and everyone wanted to keep on partying so we went to a night club. DH was fine about this. I said it was fine I would make my own way home and I was in a group. We FaceTimed him so he saw who I was with. He went to sleep but he left his phone on ‘loud’ in case I needed a lift, I didn’t realise this as it’s always on silent and I had told him to go to sleep, so in my drunkenness I sent him loads of soppy romantic texts which he said kept waking him up to check if I was ok. I got back at an absolutely ridiculous time this morning in the early hours. I then climbed all over him in what I thought was a sexy way (it wasn’t), woke him up and spilled all the water he had left by the bed all over the floor. I then snored and took up the whole bed so he had to go decamp into the spare room. He then got up and got me food this morning while I am still looking like Ursula the sea witch.
He is so nice to me, he has had little sleep due to me being a knob and I feel very bad about it. He isn’t acting pissed off at me at all but why do I feel so bad? I read posts on here all the time about men who do this to their poor wives and I am now one of those men! I said all those things, ‘I won’t drink much’ ‘I won’t be late’ then coming home at stupid time of the morning and causing drunken chaos and then the whole next day is a write off.