Met a male almost 2 years ago. He used to come in and do training courses at my work. We have once or twice been in a position to chat outside of work and been at a work party together. We've always got along and 1 or 2 members of staff have noted and commented there's a crush between us.
Him and his long term partner split up for a while then she moved back In to try again and it failed. He started messaging me. We have so far
Met up for a coffee
Had a Chinese and drinks at mine.
Called in after work for a cuppa with his dog.
We've slept together twice too. So there has been 5 occasions. Communication has been great..very warm. Chatty. Lots of humour. Throughout the days. The morning after sex the first time he took hours to reply. It did make me feel abit worried i had been used. But then he was fine again.
Last night was the second night we had sex. He messaged when he got home. Said he wanted to arrange a film night one evening this week after work and he was going to drive us to walk his dog near a nice lake at the weekend.
I am abit shocked that he just hasn't replied to my message today saying good morning how are you? He always messages in the morning. He's always messaging even when at work. I haven't heard a thing. This is the longest ever and I know its not looking good.
I'm just a little bit confused as to what he's woken up like this morning. He seemed happy last night.