I’m beginning to think that something is definitely going on.
I’ll give an example. I had my hair cut by a male stylist. When he found out he had a massive go at me and called me a whore, then didn’t speak to me for ages. Apparently it was my fault that he got jealous.
Every time he feels something bad it is always mine or someone else’s fault. We could be in a street and he thinks someone is looking at him wrong and he’ll walk up and ask them what’s their problem, they never have any idea what he’s talking about.
If it’s something good then he’ll have no issues accepting this even if it’s nothing to do with him. For example I put down the deposit on our house but apparently he enabled me to do this.